"A friend or lover can remains luringly Other to us. What we perceive as her secrets are also..."

“A friend or lover can remains luringly Other to us. What we perceive as her secrets  are also secrets to her herself + “the solution to the enigma” about the Other “consists in understanding it as a question that the Other poses to itself,” Zizek says.”

- ANDRE VANTINO http://alterities.tumblr.com/post/117197253307