a seduction process always involves the risky move of ‘making a pass’ – at this potentially dangerous moment, one exposes oneself, one intrudes into another person’s intimate space. … If my pass is accepted, it is not that I have successfully overcome the obstacle – what happens is that, retroactively, I learn that there never was an obstacle to be overcome. If my pass is rejected, it will appear as a Politically Incorrect act of harassment

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